4 Steps to Being a Happier You
It’s easy to get into a negative frame of mind with the daily stresses of work and money. However, taking a few moments to savour and appreciate the things we are blessed with can work wonders. Robert Emmons, bestselling author Gratitude Works and a professor at the University of California at Davis defines gratitude in the following way: “It’s a “felt sense of wonder, thankfulness, and appreciation for life.” According to Psychology Today expressing gratitude can even make you sexier! Well, we like the sound of that!
Catch Up With A Friend
Feeling down? Catch up with a friend in person, via phone or even email. Researchers have identified that devoting time to family and friends can lead to a happy life. “The primary components are number of friends, closeness of friends, closeness of family, and relationships with co-workers and neighbours. Together these features explain about 70 percent of personal happiness” – Murray and Peacock 1996 via The 100 Simple Secrets of Happy People.
Practice Being Present
When are humans most happy? To gather data on this question, Matt Killingsworth built an app, Track Your Happiness that let people report their feelings in real time. Among the surprising results: We're often happiest when we're lost in the moment. And the flip side: The more our mind wanders, the less happy we can be – via Ted Talks. For further reading go to mindful.org for Five steps to Mindfulness.
Don’t do something you hate
Don’t do something you hate. Via Barking Up The Wrong Tree, Cornell researcher Karl Pillemer interviewed 1000+ people over age 70 for his book “30 Lessons for Living: Tried and True Advice from the Wisest Americans.”. Asking them some of their life lessons, guess what the single most unanimous piece of advice? Do not stay in a job you dislike.